ADHD Coaching Done Differently
The Be/come Collective
Design a life that pays the bills and leaves room to live.
The Be/come Collective is the Raleigh-Durham hub where mission-driven professionals swap hustle for ease, turning frantic calendars into calm, profitable systems—without ripping their lives apart, blowing the budget on yet another shiny tool, or losing more weekends to YouTube rabbit holes. Plug into step-by-step templates, gentle accountability, and a community that’s walked the path, and finally reclaim the life you’re working so hard for
The possibility
What if the next season of your life felt like this…
You close your laptop at 4 PM—inbox clear, priorities handled—and still hit your revenue goals.
Your calendar runs on autopilot, surfacing one clear next step instead of 37 competing tabs.
Weekdays feel spacious, leaving energy for art class, date night, or simply breathing on the porch.
A crew of growth-minded pros has your back, nudging you forward with grounded, credential-backed advice (not internet noise).
Systems you trust keep boundaries firm, so “urgent” tasks stop barging into your family time.
We’ve been right there with you
You’re brilliant and capable, but somehow every day still feels the same: “How did I work all day and still feel behind?”
Surely this next planner or bullet journal will fix it… right? right??
Maybe you’ve told yourself that if you just push a little harder, you’ll get caught up.
Maybe you’ve tried the templates, the color-coding, and the promodoro technique. You’ve read Atomic Habits, Getting Things Done, and Deep Work, and you’ve even tried to eat the frog, just to watch the systems collapse in the “real world.”
You’re tired of choosing between your work and your life. You’re looking for balance without guilt, catching up and getting ahead without sacrifice.
As an educator, therapist, and recovering perfectionist, I get it.
I’ve read the books, tried the tricks, listened to the podcasts. I know what it’s like to crave ease and sustainability without having to make another to-do list for my to-do list or overhaul my life
The Collective was made for people like us.
Those of us who crave big impact in the world without the hustle and the sacrifice of our physical and mental wellbeing. For those of us who recognize that the grind has taken more than it’s given, and who are ready for structure that helps us breathe without breaking.